{"id":68911,"date":"2023-11-25T15:22:51","date_gmt":"2023-11-25T15:22:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newcelebworld.com\/?p=68911"},"modified":"2023-11-25T15:22:51","modified_gmt":"2023-11-25T15:22:51","slug":"my-wife-got-pregnant-while-having-an-affair-but-she-lost-the-baby","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newcelebworld.com\/lifestyle\/my-wife-got-pregnant-while-having-an-affair-but-she-lost-the-baby\/","title":{"rendered":"My wife got pregnant while having an affair but she lost the baby"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>My wife got pregnant while having an affair &#8211; she lost the baby and now resents me for saying I would not raise the child if it wasn&#8217;t mine<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><span>The unnamed husband, from the US, took to Reddit&#8217;s popular AITAH thread\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span>He painstakingly unraveled the sordid details which led to the difficult dynamics<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span>The man claimed his wife was a serial cheater but showed &#8216;little to no sorrow&#8217;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A man has candidly revealed how his wife got pregnant while having an affair &#8211; but, having lost the baby, now resents him for saying he would not raise the child if it was not his.<\/p>\n<p>The unnamed husband, believed to be from the US, took to Reddit&#8217;s popular\u00a0AITAH thread to unravel the details of the difficult dynamics.<\/p>\n<p>He claimed that his wife was a serial cheater but showed &#8216;little to no sorrow for what she did.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>The exasperated man revealed that he had been trying to make things work but was struggling to find a way forward.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/21\/22\/77557077-12722629-The_unnamed_husband_believed_to_be_from_the_US_took_to_Reddit_s_-a-143_1700605231356.jpg\" height=\"439\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>The unnamed husband, believed to be from the US, took to Reddit &#8216;s popular AITAH thread to unravel the details of the difficult dynamics\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/21\/22\/77562471-12722629-He_claimed_that_his_wife_was_a_serial_cheater_but_showed_little_-m-142_1700605167201.jpg\" height=\"450\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>He claimed that his wife was a serial cheater but showed &#8216;little to no sorrow for what she did&#8217; (stock image)<\/p>\n<p>The\u00a0<span>Reddit post, shared by user MulberryCultural7789, was titled: &#8216;Wife cheated, got pregnant but lost it. I don&#8217;t know if it was mine or not, but I told her I would not raise her affair baby. Am I the a**hole?&#8217;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Elaborating\u00a0further, he wrote: &#8216;She is obviously grieving, and I&#8217;ve been supportive all the way.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;The worst thing I&#8217;ve done since she told me she&#8217;s pregnant and it may not be mine, was say I wouldn&#8217;t raise her affair baby.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;She throws it back in my face daily, and I don&#8217;t even mention her cheating because I&#8217;m trying not to fight.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>The exasperated husband continued: &#8216;She shows little to no sorrow for what she did, and frequently tells me she doesn&#8217;t care about it because she lost the baby.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I also told her if I get even a hint of her cheating again, I would I leave. As a result, she feels unstable in the marriage and hates me. Am I the a**hole?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>But, before readers could weigh in, he provided an update that stated: &#8216;Next day I told her I was done. Then I offered an olive branch because damnit I did marry her for a reason.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;If she wants to remain my wife, she will go to couples&#8217; therapy, individual therapy, get off social media, and get help for her depression. I will have her location and I will be spot checking her phone randomly.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/21\/22\/78085351-12722629-image-a-144_1700605586754.jpg\" height=\"242\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>The husband went on to reveal that there had been a series of developments in the time that had elapsed since his original post<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I offered the same things to her as I have nothing to hide. I know the therapist is going to tear her up. I hope she changes because of it. I don&#8217;t think this will be enough for me to stay but I&#8217;m going to put my best effort into it to at least say that I did.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Despite the strong stance, he caveated: &#8216;By the way, I hate acting this way. Locking her down like this goes against my morals, but it&#8217;s the only way to even consider trusting her again. It&#8217;ll most likely cause her to rebel against me.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>The husband went on to reveal that there had been a series of developments in the time that had elapsed since his original post.<\/p>\n<p>He said the couple had undergone a therapist consultation before he booked an STD test and consulted a lawyer.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;The biggest thing is, she thinks she gets half the house, but I bought it without her help before marriage.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;My lawyer says she has no rights to it. I&#8217;m keeping that in my back pocket for now. She doesn&#8217;t know I spoke to a lawyer.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Also, she refuses to tell me how she deceived me. All I know is who it was, and a vague timeline.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I want to know what she told me she was doing, where I was to not know. She said her location was on. She refuses to tell me till therapy in two weeks. I feel I should have the right to know right?<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Am I an a**hole for talking to a lawyer and having divorce papers hidden under my mattress while &#8220;trying to make it work&#8221; waiting for a couples therapy appointment?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529213-12722629-image-a-41_1699397708709.jpg\" height=\"160\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529211-12722629-image-a-42_1699397712258.jpg\" height=\"138\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529207-12722629-image-a-43_1699397714921.jpg\" height=\"122\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529209-12722629-image-a-44_1699397718499.jpg\" height=\"134\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529203-12722629-image-a-45_1699397722882.jpg\" height=\"106\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/21\/22\/77529199-12722629-image-a-145_1700605682778.jpg\" height=\"196\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529197-12722629-image-a-48_1699397731473.jpg\" height=\"131\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529189-12722629-image-a-49_1699397736799.jpg\" height=\"104\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529187-12722629-image-a-50_1699397740017.jpg\" height=\"111\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529185-12722629-image-a-51_1699397743555.jpg\" height=\"140\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>The Reddit post has so far received more than 5,200 comments with most users appearing to side with the husband\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The Reddit post has so far received more than 5,200 comments with most users appearing to side with the husband.<\/p>\n<p>He replied to several users&#8217; comments and revealed his situation in greater detail.<\/p>\n<p>The unnamed man confessed that she had cheated &#8216;three times since marriage&#8217; and &#8216;once before marriage.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>The husband added in another response that she&#8217;s &#8216;masking trauma for sure, but she&#8217;s unwilling to confront it. She would rather scroll Instagram and get high.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>He also admitted that &#8216;the only reason to stay together is because she relies on [him] financially and [they] have a bunch of animals, not even kids.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>And other social media users were quick to share their own thoughts.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>One person wrote: &#8216;She&#8217;s showing no remorse. Why would you stay?&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He responded back: &#8216;I&#8217;m asking myself the same thing daily.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529205-12722629-image-a-53_1699397749758.jpg\" height=\"171\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529193-12722629-image-a-52_1699397746872.jpg\" height=\"94\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529201-12722629-image-a-47_1699397727724.jpg\" height=\"115\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/07\/22\/77529195-12722629-image-a-54_1699397752072.jpg\" height=\"89\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Other users sarcastically branded him the a**hole for not divorcing her sooner\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;The moment she cheated she lost the high ground. Sure, it sucks she lost the baby but her actions mean you&#8217;re NTA for checking out emotionally. Leave her. She is not someone you want to build a life with,&#8217; added another.<\/p>\n<p>A third person chimed in: &#8216;Lawyer up. Make plans. Dump cheating\/gaslighting spouse.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;She is a mess and she even let&#8217;s you know that she doesn&#8217;t care about you. She is going to cheat again if she is not already doing it. It will end in a divorce sooner or later anyway so I wouldn&#8217;t waste any time and get it done,&#8217; added a fourth person.<\/p>\n<p>Another wrote: &#8216;She cheated. Why don&#8217;t YOU feel unstable in the relationship?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I get she is grieving and that&#8217;s legitimate but not your fault. You need to get out of that relationship ASAP. 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