{"id":67387,"date":"2023-09-26T12:15:11","date_gmt":"2023-09-26T12:15:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newcelebworld.com\/?p=67387"},"modified":"2023-09-26T12:15:11","modified_gmt":"2023-09-26T12:15:11","slug":"i-married-my-favorite-schoolteacher-despite-25-year-age-gap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newcelebworld.com\/lifestyle\/i-married-my-favorite-schoolteacher-despite-25-year-age-gap\/","title":{"rendered":"I married my favorite schoolteacher despite 25-year age gap"},"content":{"rendered":"
A ‘teacher’s pet’ married her favorite schoolteacher after the pair fell in love, despite a 25-year age gap.<\/p>\n
Monica Foster, 32, first met her now-wife, Michelle, 57, in 2004 when she was her science teacher in Big Rapids, Michigan.<\/p>\n
Seventeen years later, Monica, a self-confessed ‘teacher’s pet’, searched on Facebook to see how her former favorite teacher was doing.<\/p>\n
Michelle had been in a relationship with a woman in the past, and Monica had just publicly come out as lesbian too.<\/p>\n
The pair met up and became close friends before a developing a romantic connection – despite being mistaken for mother and daughter ‘several times every day’.<\/p>\n
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Monica Ketchum (left) and her ‘favorite school teacher’ Michelle (right) tied the knot despite a 25-year age gap\u00a0<\/p>\n
Ignoring daily online abuse from trolls, the couple got engaged in autumn 2022.<\/p>\n
They tied the knot earlier this year and have said that they’re happier than ever after a ‘perfect day’ with a private beachfront wedding.<\/p>\n
Michelle, a now-retired teacher, said: ‘When Monica first reached out, I was always willing to be supportive of former students, so I was very happy reconnect.<\/p>\n
‘As we grew close, I was worried about the age gap and I was worried about how we first met, but I had to let it all go.<\/p>\n
‘Our wedding was a beach wedding on a stunning day – and it was just perfect.<\/p>\n
‘It’s amazing how fast the year has flown by since our engagement – it’s kind of bewildering.<\/p>\n
‘It’s amazing and very surreal – after everything, we know we’ve got this.’<\/p>\n
Monica, a school bus driver, said: ‘Our wedding day was so significant to me – I don’t care what people think because they’re not living my life, I am.<\/p>\n
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Monica and Michelle married in an intimate ceremony at Lake Michigan with close friends and family (the pair are pictured above on their wedding day)\u00a0<\/p>\n
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The newlyweds live with two children Zeke (top center) and Charlie (bottom center), Monica’s children from a previous marriage\u00a0<\/p>\n
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Monica decided to search her favorite teacher from school on Facebook to see how she was doing\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘It just felt so special.’<\/p>\n
Michelle had been Monica’s favorited teacher in seventh grade – when Monica, then 13, had been ‘the goody goody student’.<\/p>\n
While their relationship remained professional back then, Michelle left such a mark that Monica decided to find her on Facebook 17 years later, in April 2020.<\/p>\n
Monica had just gone through a tough situation and recalled Michelle’s supportive classroom being a ‘safe place’ for her when she was younger and got in touch.<\/p>\n
They began speaking online before eventually meeting again for the first time in 17 years in August 2021.<\/p>\n
Over lunch they chatted about their lives and over time they grew to be close friends.<\/p>\n
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Michelle was shocked when Monica reached out, but after going for lunch the pair quickly bonded\u00a0<\/p>\n
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The pair ended their previous relationships to be together in May 2022, with Michelle and her wife filing for a divorce<\/p>\n
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Monica and Michelle have bonded over their love of music, camping, outdoor activities, and hunting down locally brewed beer\u00a0<\/p>\n
Monica said: ‘We were both in really dark places at that time, and finding someone you can relate to and be vulnerable with felt safe.’<\/p>\n
They ended their previous relationships to be together in May 2022, with Michelle and her wife filing for a divorce.<\/p>\n
Ever since then, the couple have been living together.<\/p>\n
Monica said that despite the 25-year age gap, they have a lot in common, having bonded over music, camping, outdoor activities and hunting down locally brewed beer.<\/p>\n
While Monica ‘didn’t really have concerns’ about the age gap, Michelle initially struggled with it because of people’s assumptions.<\/p>\n
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The couple got engaged in autumn 2022, after organizing separate proposals for each other so they both had a chance to propose<\/p>\n
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While Monica ‘didn’t really have concerns’ about the age gap, Michelle initially struggled with it because of people’s assumptions<\/p>\n
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The pair now live with Monica’s children from her previous marriage Zeke (right), 7, and Charlie (left), 5\u00a0<\/p>\n
She said: ‘People ask, “Is that your mother?” or even “Is that your grandma?” all the time.<\/p>\n
‘We learned to laugh or brush it off, but if you see me kissing her, why would you ask if she’s my mother?’<\/p>\n
‘Another question I get asked is whether I loved her when I was 13 – obviously not.<\/p>\n
‘At the time, we didn’t have any relationship besides her being a good teacher.’<\/p>\n
The couple got engaged in autumn 2022, after organizing separate proposals for each other so they both had a chance to propose.<\/p>\n
Their big day rolled around, and the pair had a tiny beach wedding on June 17 at Suttons Bay, on the shore of Lake Michigan, and they said their vows in a tiny nearby cottage with just a handful of their nearest and dearest.<\/p>\n
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After a whirlwind year, the pair are ready to settle down together and spend time at home with each other<\/p>\n
Afterwards they had a singalong to ‘Good As Hell’ by Lizzo on the waterfront before they ‘cracked a beer in the forest’.<\/p>\n
Two nights earlier they had had a separate ‘mini wedding’ with Monica’s children Zeke, seven, and Charlie, five, so they could enjoy the experience too.<\/p>\n
Monica said: ‘They still talk about it – Charlie asks to wear her ‘wedding dress’.<\/p>\n
‘Zeke was wearing a rainbow bowtie.’<\/p>\n
After enjoying a relaxing honeymoon in Traverse City, the newlyweds are back home and ready to relax as wife and wife.<\/p>\n
Michelle said: ‘This year has flown fast – we travelled so much this past year.<\/p>\n
‘We’re just ready to be home together – I’m ready for some boring.’<\/p>\n
Monica added: ‘It’s time to settle down.’<\/p>\n