Women can never do 50/50 in a relationship – they always do more than a man

Women can never do 50/50 in a relationship – they always do more than a man

Nowadays, things are a lot more equal between men and women than they were a good few years back, with both parties most likely to work and household chores are split fairly (hopefully).

However, one woman has claimed that no relationship between a man and a woman can be entirely 50/50 – even if the bloke puts in a hard graft at home and at work.

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Stay-at-home mum and wife Sharmin Brunell has certainly split opinion on TikTok after having a conversation with a friend about how men and women should have equal roles in the relationship.

But, Sharmin was having none of it.

She pointed out that the woman has to deal with pregnancy and being the primary caregiver to the children – while being mostly responsible for household chores.

Sharmin, who thinks costs should not be equally split, said: “When a friend tells me she goes 50/50 with her man but she gets pregnant, has to heal from giving birth, breastfeeds, does the majority of the cooking and cleaning and its the main care taking of the kids…

“Yeah that’s 50/50 alright," she penned sarcastically.

Since being posted, the clip has racked up a huge 397,000 views and lots of comments from people eager to share their opinion.

A lot of women agreed with Sharmin’s opinion.

One woman penned: “More like 70/30.”

Another user added: “And women always end up doing more in the home regardless but even if men help in that regard, when it comes to kids, mums do the most!”

While a third wrote: “After giving birth and whilst pregnant I’m not working and my man needs to know that.”

Someone else declared: “50/50 for the bills only, 80/20 for the rest and men have the audacity to say that the equality we want.”

Meanwhile, a fifth woman expressed: “Definitely. Even if dad is picking up a lot of physical responsibilities, mums take on a lot of mental load, thinking about things in advance.”

However, many others disagreed with Sharmin’s claim.

One person fretted: “And what do you want her to do? Be financially dependent on a man, and if he cheats she is trapped?”

A second person admitted: “Hell no. That’s my worst nightmare.”

This user slammed: “Good luck finding a good man first of all. You won't.”

And, this person jibed: “And he's paying all the bills sounds fair.”

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