My friend set me up with her ex but they still have feelings for one another

My friend set me up with her ex but they still have feelings for one another

DEAR DEIDRE: MY friend encouraged me to get together with her ex but they still seem to have feelings for one another.

She has a new boyfriend but when we became friends, she said I should meet a male friend of hers. It turns out they used to date.

I’m 25 and so is my friend. Her ex is 27. We went out as a foursome initially and it was great but the second time there were three of us.

I could tell something was getting to her.

I asked her whether she wanted me to stop seeing him but she said no.

They talk about when they were together, the songs they liked or their little “in” jokes when we meet. I feel out of it all.

I think she’ll always come first for him and him for her.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Tell him how you are feeling.

She may be history and perhaps he is not very good at changing the way he behaves around her.

If he is reassuring that they are only friends, he will be mindful about how he talks to her in future.

But if there is still something underlying going on, you will soon spot it and you can tell him that this relationship doesn’t feel right and you want out.

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