DEAR DEIDRE: MUM drinks a lot at weekends then wets the bed.
I’m a man of 30 and still live with her. My father passed away two years ago.
She is 53 but has a busy social life. At weekends she drinks in our social club.
Sometimes she wets herself or leaves a trail across the bathroom floor when she’s not made it in time.
Her bed is a mess.
It’s stressing me out but she won’t talk about it.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Say that you understand it’s not something she wants to talk about but you worry about her health and her drinking levels – and it’s unfair to expect you to live with this.
Tell her she needs to see her doctor, both about her drinking and whether she needs to see a urologist.
Pelvic floor-strengthening exercises could make a massive difference. You can find some support through Al-Anon (al-anonuk.org.uk, 020 7403 0888).
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